This is a scam site for male homosexuals (many of them prisoners)
I joined this site in May 2024 to learn more about the BDSM community. I assumed that, since the site was named after the philosophy, they might be respectful of the BDSM community, and would maintain the highest standards to protect their users. In fact, BDSM.COM has no relationship whatsoever with the BDSM community.
Females place profiles on this site that say things like this:
âHey all you DOM Masters on this site! I donât know anything about this BDSM thing. I need you to teach me!! Iâm ready to be controlled and used !!!â
Translation:
âHey, men who think they know about BDSM !!! Let me make you feel important so you can all have sex with me for cash !!!â
Talk about charming !
When I arrived on the site, my simple DOM-in-training profile got a lot of attention. I was surprised. How would I handle 50 eager âsubsâ (submissives), all begging for my leadership? Then things got strange. After texting a few times, I realized that we werenât getting anywhere. We mostly batted the ball back and forth with no outcome. Were they toying with me?
Then I thought, these are real people, right? When I checked my 50 âsubsâ, I was blown away to discover that only two of them were verified.
Getting your identify verified on BDSM.COM is fairly easy. It takes about five minutes. They use a well-known service to temporarily â and securely â store a photo of your ID card. They then ask you to take a take a photo of your face next to that same ID card. They match it using software. They then destroy all of the records of those materials. Hence no chance whatsoever of theft.
I gave my new subs âinstructionsâ â which I had a right to do as their Dom or Master â to get verified immediately. They sheepishly agreed. But none of them actually did it
Finally, I instructed them to provide a public (disposable) email address so I could set up a Google Chat. Thatâs a safe way to talk with someone without having their phone number, for instance. It also supports video. I insisted that this be a *video* chat, which I repeated as if they were morons (what are the odds of that, right?). Finally, three of the 50 girls agreed. I was feeling a bit embarrassed since they had called my bluff.
In all three cases, the girls started the Google Chat. They sent me sexy â-- *unsolicited* -- photos of themselves. I was not dissuaded. I said, âOK, Iâm calling you on video chatâ. The problem was that none of them answered.
âI havenât paid my phone billâ
âI doesnât work, I swearâ
âIâm trying to install Skype insteadâ
Then things got quite a lot stranger. One of these three whatever-they-ares stupidly left their real name on the Google Chat window. The name was a series of short phrases. I looked them up on Google. The first two were the name of a rap singer. I asked the sub about that.
âItâs just a nickâ âŠ
{oops} ⊠ânameâ
The third name was âAdomâ. I asked about that.
âIt means wondrous oneâ
Not quite. Yes, it had a fun, magical meaning. *But* then I saw the actual Google description:
âmasculine name used in GhanaâŠâ
I was talking to a man all along! They were all men. And since their goal was to talk about sex with men, and exchange genital picâs, these were male homosexuals. Thatâs why none of them could face me. They were fakes.
Just before this, I foolishly gave my phone number to two subâs. Within an hour, I received a call from Folsom Prison. Some male prisoner was trying to get me to accept a collect call !!!
As I objected more and more, my loyal cadre of subs evaporated like water in the desert. I wrote to the last bunch and told them that they could verify themselves using any objective means whatsoever. None of them complied.
I have good taste in females. I know I responded to the 50 prettiest girls on the site. Guilty as charged. But only two were verified. The rest refused to confirm their identity using any means whatsoever. That means that BDSM.COM is made up of:
⢠A large group of average-looking profiles that are probably accurate. Nobody ever contacts them.
⢠A small group of hyper-hot females that donât exist. Everybody wants them. People actually bid money to get attention from them. But these are not females at all. They are male homosexuals looking for a quick jerk.