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Jan was one of the most helpful coaches I've worked with over the past 13 years of extreme focused personal development. And I've done a ridiculous amount of courses, programs, retreats, and modalities. He far surpassed most people I've worked with.

He has an unbelievable skill/method that helps you find and then reprogram limiting beliefs that are keeping you from the love that you want. He helped me pick out shards of limiting energy in my nervous system. For example my hatred of men (hard to find a man if you hate men) and the ick that would arrive when a safe healthy person put his attention on me.

Aside from that he helped remove my limiting belief that I could only earn X amount of money and helped heal my fear of the dark. We started with him helping me with dating then he ended up helping me with lots of other things too.

He is professional and kind and lighthearted so healing doesn't always have to be so heavy and hard. He really cares about his clients. And when a guy I was seeing said he didn't want to date me and I was heartbroken and crying Jan immediately made time for me and really helped calm me down and helped me regain my serenity. He also helped the horrific pain in my heart after another guy (yes different from the one above) also ended things and he just removed that pain and then I was able to move on peacefully. He also always encouraged me to be honest with my truth and my feelings so that I could find more aligned people to bring into my life.

Aside from all that having the MAN's perspective is INVALUABLE. So incredibly helpful.

I highly recommend working with him. I have been speaking to him almost weekly or twice a month for a year.

Jan is a solid man who brings his centeredness, directness and integrity into is coaching and leadership.

The feeling of safety that comes from a man who is this authentic in his expression is truly a gift in an age where others exist in pleasing performance.

I highly recommend Jan as a coach and guide for anyone seeking deeper truth, clarity and authenticity in their lives.

I discovered Jan online some time ago and had been following his work long before joining his three-month Magnetize program. What initially drew me to him was his perspective on relationships, which I found unusually insightful, thoughtful, and deeply human.

I genuinely believe Jan is one of the very few men I’ve encountered who truly understands women, and I think that’s a rare quality. He sees relationships with a depth and sensitivity that goes far beyond conventional dating advice.

What I appreciate most about his approach is that, in a world full of advice about how to attract men, become more desirable, or use femininity strategically, Jan encourages something fundamentally different: authenticity.

In a way, I see him as a guardian of authentic expression. He encourages women to trust their inner voice, communicate honestly, honor their boundaries, and stay true to their standards, even when the world seems to suggest they should lower them. His work is rooted in mutual understanding, emotional maturity, and the courage to be vulnerable. I find that perspective both refreshing and beautiful.

Having participated in Magnetize, I can also say that Jan has created a genuinely valuable framework for exploring relationship patterns and developing greater self-awareness. What surprised me most was how personally involved he was throughout the program. He was incredibly generous with his time, answered our questions thoughtfully, and showed genuine interest in each participant. I really felt that he cared.

I know Jan also works with men, and I think that work is incredibly important. From what I’ve observed, women are often more actively engaged in self-reflection and inner work, and I believe we need more men who are willing to explore their emotional world and understand women’s experiences. I would wholeheartedly recommend Jan to men as well. As a woman, I genuinely wish more men could see relationships through his eyes. I think the world would be a better place.

Ultimately, what I love about Jan’s approach is the message that we don’t need to become someone else to be worthy of love. We can learn to understand ourselves better, express ourselves more honestly, and build relationships in which both people feel seen, respected, and free to be who they are.

I’m genuinely grateful for the experience and wholeheartedly recommend Jan and his Magnetize program.

Jan-Willem helped me develop a sense of confidence and efficiency in what I do - both in my relationship and personal life. He has a way of cutting though the noise and getting to what really needs to change in the deeper levels. I would highly recommend.

An absolute expert in building and maintaining relationships!!! The best!!

I’ve been working 1:1 with Jan for several months now, and he has truly become one of my favourite mentors. He has challenged me, supported me, accepted me, and empowered me to step into a new identity - one that has aligned me with the kind of man I once only dreamed of.

Through our journey together, Jan has helped me understand my triggers in dating and relationships, especially the insecure nervous system responses that came up when my man needed space or had to process his own emotions. He guided me in learning how to communicate my needs in a way my man could understand and respond to.

Whenever I felt anxious, angry, sad, or guilty, Jan was there to support me so I could remain present in my relationship rather than shutting down or running away as I once did.

What I loved most was the balance, Jan could be incredibly gentle when I needed holding, but also tough when I needed to be challenged to see beyond my fears. He reflected back the unhealed parts of me that were longing to be seen, and I’ll be forever grateful that the universe led me to him. I wholeheartedly recommend being in his presence and in this program.