my 2025 top surgery experience
the team at TC have been kind and enthusastic and i have to mention how extremely happy i am with my results and it looks exactly how i wanted it to!!
i hope this can be understood beyond the 3 star (2.5 if possible) rating and this is taken as good-faith criticism based on my personal experience to help improve the service for future patients. had to be short for character count limit. TC = TransgenderCare.
i chose TC because:
- positive reviews and testimonies
- 'psychoaesthetic' approach to surgery. this is gender affirming care and i felt seen as a trans person, not just like plastic surgery patient.
- not just referred to as 'FTM surgery'. i am nonbinary and i felt strongly about not being respected and not pushed into a box
- no super low and strict BMI limit for surgery. i get put off and doubtful of a surgeon's skill if they are so restrictive.
some issues i had:
- i was told the price could go up cos of hospital fees so expected it, but was only asked to pay on the day that it had gone up by several £100s (after provisionally booking surgery date, doing relevant tests etc). after expressing how this felt strange, i kindly got the original price, but put me in a difficult position.
- home-test for MRSA was sent to my address without warning; didn't know i'd be posted anything so hadn't thought to update i had moved house week before. would've appreciated checking for correct/most appropriate address before posting something.
- one week before surgery, hospital location was changed; still harley street so fine for travel, but the last-minute change lead to problems: of not being able to get replies to double-check info with new hospital. was told by TC i could have a direct relative until going to theatre, and that post op visiting depended on staff constraints/my recovery. unfortunately this turned out untrue- wasn't allowed any visitors at any stage. this is probably my biggest regret about the process as getting to see family after waking up would have been really nice.
hospital experience:
- mostly positive.
- anaesthetist was very good, i felt calm and really happy when i woke up, and more peacefully drifting off.
-nurses were extremely responsive to my call button!! practically immediate at all hours
-it was a shame to be misgendered a few times (despite the form at the hospital including a section about pronouns) but lucky that i was too happy to care a lot. i understand the hospital is not TC but perhaps TC could do more to emphasise the significance of hospital staff paying attention to this when caring for their trans patients.
- discharged next day and extremely happy to not go home with drains!! minimal pain and felt really good leaving the hospital.
post-op:
- was told i'd have a call with mr vahidi just before discharge, and 2 days after discharge. neither happened, weren't mentioned. didn't chase this up cos honestly i was too tired and not worried about anything.
- first 6 months of post op care were good, scheduled checkups as expected and felt like i could contact them about any issues. i like the intention of prolonged care post-op.
six months post-op issues:
- in my 6 month appt, they didn't have access to my photos/comments i had sent in, about something i was only mildly concerned about checking whether was normal. was told they would get back to me asap; this did not happen.
- emailed several times over next 3 months. when i tried a different email address, i did eventually get a reply saying that junk mail filters had accidentally blocked me (it's annoying but these things happen!!) and my emails had been unblocked.
- unfortunately this was six weeks ago. after replying that i didn't need a phone call, i just wanted some responses to my previous emails, i haven't heard anything at all which is quite a shame.
for improvement:
- a clearer, specific, accurate written timeline of the process from first consultation to surgery!!
- further openness and efficiency in communication via email. phone calls were frequent and v informative however sometimes i struggled to get information sent to me clearly in writing (i prefer emails)
- more thorough checks on how things are progressing and checking on things that are supposed to happen (eg appointments, communications etc)