they ruin your relationship with your kids never listen to the man side my ex Anna is on benefits don't work wants money for her life I was feeding my 18 year old daughter 3/4 days a week she didn't want to stay with me as she not a kid had to stop as I could afford it after 109 pound a week was taken out and couldn't afford my bills while she lived it up really when I refused wot happens threatened with court and passport taken off me and driving licence sort your shit out so unfair