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Within less than 48 hours of our consultation with Brenda our lives were completely changed.
It was our first child and we had received differing advice for our 16 month old.
Brenda has a no-nonsense, direct approach and gave us a detailed routine which we were able to tweak over the course of three weeks. Her clear instructions were not only easy to follow but they worked instantly. We could ask her as many questions as we liked and received quick feedback.
We have gone from having a co-sleeping baby, who woke every couple hours of the night to a baby who sleeps a solid 12 hours! Our daughter is also so much happier now that she is getting consistently good sleep. We are beyond grateful. Thank you Brenda.

Brenda was our night nanny for our newborn from the start. As usual she was excellent and gave us complete peace of mind that our little one was being taken care of whilst we got some much needed rest. I’m always so Impressed at Brenda’s skills and experience, and in the way she adapts to each child.

Brenda helped us establish a consistent daytime routine, which not only transformed our son’s nighttime sleep but also made a huge difference to his overall temperament. Once he had a predictable routine in place, he became a much happier and more settled baby.

One of the things we appreciated most was that the approach didn’t involve leaving him to cry for long periods, which we simply weren’t prepared to do. Instead, we learned that creating consistency and predictability throughout the day, while gradually shifting the majority of his sleep to nighttime, helped him build the right amount of sleep pressure to fall asleep more easily.

Before working with Brenda, we would spend hours rocking him to sleep. After just the first day of following the routine, he slept through the night -and has continued to do so ever since. Even more amazingly, bedtime became effortless. Instead of hours of rocking, we could simply put him into his cot, and he would settle himself to sleep. It was a complete game changer for our family.

Brenda helped our 7 months baby boy to sleep through the night. We went from 3 overnight feed and several awakenings to 11-12 hours of uninterrupted sleep. She gave us a routine to follow which we adapted to our lifestyle and in just 3 weeks we got our own sleep back. Her methods are not for everyone as you literally need to fight your instincts for sleep training to work. It can be extremely tough and perceived as "ruthless" but it works 100%. We would recommend her to anyone.

We hired Brenda to help our son with his sleeping schedule at 20 months. He has always been cosleeping with us and we wanted him to sleep in his own cot in his own room.

Brenda came to visit us and meet our son. She implemented strict protocol and schedule on what our son’s evening schedule should be, what time we need to put him to bed, and process for when he starts crying when he leaves the room.

On the first day our son started going to bed at 715pm (he has only been falling asleep previously at 915). He cried for 10 minutes then fell asleep. Since then he has kept falling asleep independently and then sleeping completely through the night. Brenda also instructed us to shorten our son’s nap at nursery to help him sleep for longer overnight.

It has now been over 3 weeks and we are happy to say that is has been a success. Our son sleeps through the night which means we can sleep through the night as well. Our health has improved and we are no longer getting bugs from the nursery due to a lack to sleep. We enjoyed working with Brenda and her no nonsense approach and would recommend her to our friends.

We were recommended Brenda by friends who swore by her methods for their kids. Before working with her, our 5.5 month old had never slept through the night, had unpredictable nap patterns and needed to be breastfed to sleep. We did not feel like we could continue this way, but didn’t know how to get ourselves out of the cycle - and his sleep even seemed to be getting worse.

Brenda responded immediately and arranged to come to our home within days, she spent 2 hours getting to know our baby and talking through her tried and tested routine.

We followed it exactly and within a day, he slept through the night for the first time and has continued to do so ever since. I now don’t need to do night feeds and he goes to sleep by himself with no help.

We used our 3 weeks access to Brenda to make sure we talked through all possible ‘life’ scenarios, such as travel or what to do when something doesn’t go as planned. Brenda offered us advice on how to make it work but reminded us of the importance of consistency.

Her approach is incredibly strict and some may find her abrupt, but i believe this this is necessary for something like sleep training… as we found the process very difficult and would have given up had it not been for Brenda holding us accountable and reassuring us along the way.

I would say that anyone considering sleep training should know that it is challenging for the parents but to trust the process as the results really change the game. Our baby is now incredibly happy and settled into his routine, we all get great sleep and more predictable nap times. Now the time spent together is a lot more relaxed and joyful, rather than full of stress around when and how he will sleep.

I truly believe this is the best thing we could have done for our family and we are all better off for having a healthy routine.

Thank you Brenda!

We had a fantastic experience with Brenda when sleep training our 11 week old baby who went from sleeping for 3 hour stints to sleeping through the night after a few days.

Brenda is structured and no nonsense in her approach but she gets results. Following her advice and using her discipline is the way to get those results.

I would highly recommend her to any friends or family looking to do sleep training.

You wouldn’t believe me if I told you Brenda helped me get my daughter to sleep from the first night of trying her method, but she did! She has so much experience and her method is so sound and common sense but it really is more about training the mom than the child. I appreciated her insights so much, such as introducing more real foods asap and not relying so much on just formula. It’s been a few weeks now and I just fed my daughter a delicious homemade rice soup packed with veggies whereas a few weeks ago if it wasn’t yogurt with strawberries she wasn’t interested.

With the end of my maternity leave approaching, we decided to bite the bullet and contact Brenda after months of recommendations from friends to help with our son's sleep.

What I really loved about Brenda's approach is that she comes to your home and observes your baby in their natural environment and existing routine. Her expertise meant she instantly spotted a couple of small changes we could make that would have a huge impact on our son's sleep habits.

Sure enough, the night Brenda left, our son slept from 7pm to 7am. Having someone tailor a routine specifically to your baby made all the difference.

Our only regret is not calling Brenda sooner. Thank you, Brenda!

We got Brenda onboard when our baby was 8 weeks old and we were put into a routine on the same day and our daughter responded to it instantly.

She went from not sleeping at all, to sleeping almost through the night from day one.

The aftercare is second to none and Brenda was always checking in to see our progress and would tweak things if necessary.

Highly recommend Brenda to anyone!

Brenda changed our toddlers sleeping pattern in a matter of days- quite remarkable!

Our daughter had been waking 3-4 times a night before Brenda arrived and now sleeps from 7-7 every night. Brenda won't sugar coat things for you, she is very straight talking but she does produce results and our daughter does seem a lot happier on her revised routine. She is also very helpful post visit on WhatsApp, checking in each morning and offering advice and adjustments until everyone is happy.

Brenda is a miracle worker.
If you are running on empty and wondering if your child will ever sleep, just hire Brenda.

Our two-year-old daughter hadn't slept through the night more than four or five time since she was born. We were completely exhausted. Within just three days of working with Brenda, she was sleeping through the night. It feels nothing short of a miracle.

The impact on our family has been immense. My wife and I are finally getting a full night's rest, meaning we can actually show up to work fully present, focused, and attentive instead of just surviving the day. More importantly, having our energy back means we can finally enjoy quality, focused time with our eldest child, rather than always feeling stretched to the limit.
Brenda didn't just fix our daughter's sleep; she completely gave us our lives and family time back. We cannot recommend her highly ends. Five stars isn't enough!

We were recommended working with Brenda to improve our daughters sleep by several of Brenda's previous clients, and we are certainly glad we listened to them! Before Brenda, our daughter was waking multiple times at night, feeding unnecessarily and napping far longer in the day than needed at her age. Following Brenda's clear routine, guidance and knowledge we manage to drastically improve our daughters night time sleep in a matter of days. She still does not sleep 7 -7 (is an early waker often) but sleeps solidly and deeply at night and we hope by sticking to Brenda's routine the mornings will continue to improve. She is also able to put herself to sleep comfortable for both naps and bedtime which is a drastic improvement from the lengthy routine of rocking, shusshing, singing etc that we had in place previously.

We were happy that our work with Brenda carried through to our recent holiday with our daughter to France. Previously when we have taken our daughter away, she has slept terribly out of her home environment but this time arguably slept even better than she does at home! It made the holiday far more relaxing and enjoyable for all.

We have used Brenda twice and both times our children were sleep trained within 3 months. As well as this, she offers very practical and useful support for mums She really gets to know the child and she is extremely professional and experienced. Thank you Brenda!

We contacted Brenda for support with our youngest son when he was just over six months old. After nearly four months of hourly night wakings, we were exhausted, struggling to make progress on our own, and in need of guidance.

We were very grateful that Brenda came to visit us in person in Kent. She took the time to meet our whole family, including our toddler, and developed a schedule tailored to the needs of both children.

Brenda quickly identified that our youngest was not a particularly high-sleep-needs child and suggested adjustments to his daytime sleep, which proved helpful.

Nearly six weeks on from Brenda’s visit, our son’s sleep has improved dramatically, and he will often sleep for stretches of up to 10 hours. For that, we are enormously grateful, and there is no doubt that our family's situation has improved significantly.

That said, the process of getting there was not easy. Brenda’s approach relies heavily on a full-extinction "cry it out" method, which we found emotionally challenging to implement. Throughout the three-week follow-up period, Brenda was highly responsive and consistently replied to messages promptly. However, the guidance remained largely focused on maintaining the routine and allowing the process to run its course, regardless of the level of crying involved.

We also found that Brenda’s communication style may not suit every family. At times, we would have appreciated more empathy and reassurance, given how difficult the process felt for both us and our children.

While we understand that confidence and consistency are important when supporting families through sleep training, there were occasions when her manner came across as abrupt or defensive, which made some interactions feel challenging.

Ultimately, we do not regret using Brenda’s services, and we are thankful for the positive outcome we achieved. However, we would recommend that prospective clients carefully consider whether her direct, highly structured, and no-nonsense approach aligns with their parenting style and comfort level, as it may not be the right fit for every family.

We reached out to Brenda when we were completely at the end of our tether. Our son was 18 months old and had never slept through the night. We knew deep down that we had become too soft and were stuck in survival mode, giving him milk just so he would go back to sleep, lying with him for hours, and dealing with multiple wake ups every night.

Brenda was exactly what we needed. Her approach is definitely tough love, so if you are looking for someone to tell you that you are doing everything right or to sugar coat things, she may not be for you. But if you know something has to change, are willing to listen, learn, understand why your child is struggling with sleep, and stick to a clear plan, then I genuinely believe you can get amazing results with Brenda.

For us, it worked like a charm. The results came much quicker than we expected, and our son is now sleeping around 11 hours a night without needing a bottle, without us lying with him, and he is able to self-soothe during the night. We honestly cannot believe how far we have come.

We are still working on a slightly early start, and this is probably the one area where we found the process a little more challenging. Brenda felt that removing his nap was the right next step, whereas we were hesitant because even reducing his nap had made him very upset during the day, which was unusual for our normally happy little boy. Her approach is very firm, and while that was exactly what we needed overall, in this particular area we would perhaps have appreciated a little more flexibility or discussion around alternatives sooner. That said, we were only able to work with Brenda online because we live in Spain, and I do think that naturally makes it harder for any sleep trainer to fully understand a child’s behaviour and temperament compared with seeing them in person. Despite that, Brenda’s guidance was still incredibly helpful, and she did later explain that there could be other factors at play, such as sleep debt or a delayed reaction to the sleep training, giving us further options to consider.

Brenda’s knowledge, honesty, and support have made a big difference to our family. We are grateful that our son is finally getting a full night’s sleep, and we cannot thank her enough.

Thank you Brenda!
Louise, Gary & Mateo

Brenda was the perfect third party to help us through sleep training with Sasha. Her years of experience were clear from the start, and she brought so much reassurance, structure, and calm to the process. She not only guided us through Sasha’s sleep training, but also answered so many of our broader questions about developmental growth and the day-to-day stages of growing up.

We felt supported, understood, and much more confident thanks to her guidance. We’re so grateful for Brenda’s help and would highly recommend her to any parents looking for an experienced, thoughtful, and compassionate sleep consultant.

Brenda completely changed our lives, basically overnight. Our son hadn't been sleeping through the night since we returned from Australia on holiday for almost two months and we were at our wits end. Brenda arrived like supernanny and gave us a simple easy to follow routine, and within 48 hours or son was sleeping 12-hours nights and has every night since. We recommend Brenda to everyone and will enrol her services again when we have our next children.

Brenda helped us with our 4 month old to get onto a better routine. I was all over the place, feeding 3 times a night, confused about feeding and she wasn’t sleeping long stretches, I was exhausted! She helped give me confidence that she could sleep through….she now sleeps 7-7 and is a much happier baby with feeding and napping, even managing to exclusively breastfeed too. Thank you so much!