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Dreadful experience. The person on the phone. Understood nothing. Condescending. Demeaning. If any of these people visited deprived towns. Then they MAY have some insight. I should have taken notice of the other reviews. And published samaritans scandals

I had never called Samaritans before. On Saturday I realised I was carrying everyone’s emotional baggage. My marriage was ending, I was struggling to help my son with chronic illness. I was dealing with a lot of health issues myself but trying to get through Christmas without collapsing. I have absolutely no support network. I was in a very dark place. The call would have been great in a black comedy. I explained through sobbing that I didn’t feel I could cope anymore with all the weight on me. He made some sympathetic noises, expressed surprise at never having heard the health condition my son suffers from. Then I sensed it was all very much too complex for him to deal with and he said “well, do you think you could get through Christmas and give everyone a nice time”. That was sobering and I realised that no one was coming to save me so I better try to do it myself. There is no shame in being in a state of collapse but have no expectations that the person on the end of the line will be able to pick you up. I realisation that you’re better equipped to do that for yourself wasn’t, on reflection, a bad thing. However, it’s shocking that some people will have spiral too far to be able to do this.

I think it is discussing that the samaritans are sending chrismas shoe box's to other countries that don't sellabrate christmas. HAVE THEY THOUGHT OF UK CHILDREN FIRST THIS IS MORE IMPORTANT CHARITY BEGINS IN GREAT BRITAIN FIRST

I don't see the point of it, no suloutions, trying to steer you toward skydaddy-a waste of my time and theirs. It might work for other people.

Feeling down? Call Samaritans, a sure fire way to be made to feel guilty and shame about your mental health, the best way to make your miserable life even more unbearable.

Guy was clearly uninterested and relying on his PowerPoint training to “listen”

But then I’m tempted to give 5 stars, because I hung up and called one of my best friends and had one of the greatest conversations of my life… so is it intentional?

Anyways, what I’m saying is… if you have someone you can chat with - open up to them. It’ll be less scary than you think.

I called the Samaritans today, with a lot of distressing issues. I felt the woman judged me. In the end she said I was like a washing machine going round and round and said she had to end the call. She offered me no solutions and seriously lacked empathy.
My advice to anyone feeling very distressed is talk to a good friend if you have one. If not find things in the community to join in where you have a much better chance of finding support face to face.
It saddens me, that Samaritans is a very random source of support. In the past I have talked to people who seemed to care, but after the last call, I dont think I would call them again. I honestly think it is better to find support elsewhere.

I have been blocked for 6 months now. I rang Samaritans back then, they were very intolerant. Was going through a very difficult time. Still need to be able to call them. Rang the Support Team many many times got the voicemail, left a message. They never got back to me. Am left stranded.

I spent 30min of sharing my deepest darkest problems, completely exposed... Hoping to get a nudge in the right direction. Just to be asked is there anything else? I feel no difference before to after the call? Would prefer my 30min back tbh.

I’ve been in a desperate situation for some time and I hit Rick bottom on Friday just gone. It was awful, absolutely terrible and thank goodness I wasn’t suicidal because after that experience I would have been.
I understand that mental illness is now a massive problem within the U.K. but if the Samaritans can’t find the proper and right people to answer the phones then honestly don’t bother. The person I spoke to was terrible, he was reading from a script, no empathy, no comprehension, zero compassion and was robotic. I hung up, he was so bloody awful and far too much background noise. How embarrassing for an organisation that advertises its call to help vulnerable people. JOKE 😢

Awful...woman was sleeping...took her a while to come round. Had to hang up.

Contacted twice in years, first time man was so impartial that he basically said'you're on your own, I can't help you make that decision' looking back,he should have told me to report something. Second time,same thing really, apart from a vague threat to report me if I was a danger to myself, I said I wasn't, job done. I am not in that place anymore, but I would not advise anyone to call them if in need of urgent mental health help, I'd advise calling a mental health crisis team,numbers are online, or going to A and E, as scary as that is,you at least feel hope.

I'm a teenager who is having suicidal thoughts amd who doesn't have anyone to talk to and when I called, the lady with me was so nice and gave me some good advice. Also, I called at 1 in the morning and only had to wait about two minutes, which is pretty good. I'm so happy to have called them and they reassured me that I could call them at any time.

Had rung samaritans many times when i had been drinking had been feeling really down i allways felt worse the next day after ringing them more deppressed so i rang when i was compleatley sober one afternoon and i realised why i got a conndersending old woman on the phone who didnt want me to talk about how my nerves cause me to be sick and want to poo when i was outdoors due to my agriphobia i just seid to her i dont want to talk to you she sounded like she would want an argument so i hung up thay in my opinion have very little compassion all the times i have rang just dont bother you allways feel worse after you call them

The man i spoke to straight away said he can't give advice, I get that to a certain point but suggestions would help, they are probably limited by some guidelines if what they can and can't say. The guy said he would listen to me, well I might as well have talked to the mirror, mmm is not helpful , being on the phone basically talking to myself is not helpful if they think they are then they are wrong, I could hear people in the background, he wasn't really interested at all.

I've never rang Samaritans before but I spoke to a lady called Sam tonight. We were on the phone together for one hour. I went from being so broken and sad to being able to see what I've got. She was amazing and some of the things she said will stay with me forever. She made a difference at the right time and I guess I got to speak to someone who actually cared. I basically poured everything out to her and she listened, asked appropriate questions, made me laugh, made me realise a few things. Thank you Sam. I wish you all the best.

Being in the depths of How reaching out to a weird number at a weird time of day to explain to a stranger who answers the phone with hello given them all your time and effort, strengths and weaknesses and the reason you got here for them to tell you, it's okay you're a warrior and we're here if you need to call back........

I waited until I felt desperate for help. I have phoned twice in the last year and both times it went straight to voicemail

Struggle to get through to somebody. In 2019 I could often get through to somebody after a 5/10 min wait day or night. My experience this past year has been unless I call week day mornings before 1 I can't get through to anyone. When I did the volunteer was good, they listened.